the only reason I put it in public is I didn't know how to use forum pm or that it even existed and that is why I was respectful enough not to mention names in the public forum.
I have tried to calm down and I know it isn't military boot camp I have tried not to post anything else on the forum except as a response to others post like saying thanks or good job etc.
I would look stuff up outside of the fleet if I knew asking for help would have done this
I take criticism ok but when followed in pm with negative remarks it is no longer criticism.
thanks for your input I will take it as a lesson learned